optimistic vs pessimistic

all my life, i must admit that i have never met someone as optimistic as myself...yes han...i agree...but have you ever met someone totally on d other end? someone sooooo negative, that each and everyday without fail, she starts it with a sigh, and says that she will die because she's not doing well enough in d course...funny thing about life...ive not only met this girl, this total opposite, but we sit together in class everytime, and i adore her...hehe...sometimes of course it annoys me to d core just listening to her whine about life, but i think its actually refreshing to have someone to argue with everyday, and somehow understanding each others traits as we are...

she whines about how she hates working in a group (though she used to be a project manager herself), she whines about how inefficient d transportation is here in liverpool on saturdays...she complains about d coffee...she complains about d lecturers...n d list goes on and on...

at a ripened age as we are, i dont believe that anyone could actually change her...ive asked her before if she's read 'The Secret' at which she paused, made a face...and started whining about something else...amazing...though i believe it may not be of good influence to me, (or good, coz at least i would step out of d bubble once in a while) i think i'd ride along...see how far things go...i guess i could use a punch in d face once in a while...herself, likewise :)